Themes of Love

It has different levels with the highest I.e. the Selfless. It's really difficult being completely selfless towards anyone within any relationship. Nowadays it's very rare. Probably it's not even possible now with lust, wanting fame or not wanting disgrace, money, power, fear of society, attention or any selfish desires in almost everyone's heart. Time is changing rapidly and the past is taking all the selfless and good with it. We might be emotional and blind or society is telling not to see it but reality is different.

Selfish desires are there. some has more, some has less but it's there. But in some relationships, the desires are not completely wrong if we see through their eyes, they can't just resist it and it's not their fault too. Slowly real love is fading away from this world of burning desires. It's our choice either to burn in the fire and be nothing or become the air and finally be free. Choose wisely.

Then the lower level of "the selfless" can be the selfish. It's where majority of peoples fit in. From desires and satisfaction of choices breeds love. It goes on until the choices are satisfied. Then slowly it gives up and try to chase after someone who can fulfill it's desires. They will tell lies to fulfill it so think logically and carefully. When time flies then we can get more attached to even that selfish love and when they won't continue then it will hurt more.

So now in this selfish love world, maybe having some ego or self respect would be fine. It will act as a defense mechanism for own mental peace. It can help control the mental sanity and won't let chase after selfish love. I know ego isn't a good thing and can destroy but sometime it's necessary evil. For example, someone you love isn't loving you back then if you don't have ego then you will keep chasing after them and mental peace can be destroyed.

The third level can be the forced. When someone forces you to love them back. Influence your thoughts so it's not really natural love. Or take advantage of your situation to change your feelings in favor of them. Be careful about it. Extreme selfishness can be found so it can be dangerous for you.

Note: it's only the outer layers. Let's not go into more depth. 

Different Perspectives

Peoples see the situations from their perspective only and that's the issue. Everyone's problems and thoughts are different. It's different, but that doesn't make it wrong.

They decide on their own that something is right or wrong, normal or not and won't even try to understand other's decisions. Their ego and selfish nature won't allow to understand others. Someone who has everything and Someone else who has nothing, surely will have different ideas and beliefs. Someone who works and Someone who doesn't, Someone who sees and Someone who doesn't will say different things about the situation from their perspective. World is slowly getting sucked into chaos because of differences, ego and lack of understanding. Unless one backs down and let the other one stand with ego, everything will continue to get worse but how much one will endure for peace? How much one has to back down? How much one understands the truth and still has to be quiet?

It's a hard thing to understand the others and their perspective. Because it's hard, it will take courage to put down one's ego and selfish nature in front of the truth. Otherwise after sometime we won't be...human at heart.

NETworks

Title isn't a joke, this net really works. Many fake lifestyles and peoples are trying to manipulate and make a fool of one another. Can't fully trust someone now. Hypocrisy, wrong info are major waves in the ocean of social networks.

They will force their ideas and beliefs on others. They will tell others what everyone should like, dislike, think, good, bad to satisfy their own ego. If beliefs and thinking are not matching then there will be fights among each other, empty criticism and insults.

For some, it really affects their mental health and it won't change soon. Peoples can flip sides at any moment with just a little push. Without knowing facts they will believe anything or anyone or do anything and when truth is unveiled in front of them then they will do the opposite to prove their innocence. They are just at their own side. They don't care about anything else, it's just to show that they and their beliefs are good. Damn, it seems that unfortunately joker's dialogue is getting more relatable day by day I.e. "When the chips are down, these civilized people, they will eat each other ". 

So if someone is reading this then don't just learn the morals, put that to work every moment of life.

Mental health

It's a joke many times in many homes. There's even no concept of it in some. The problem is not in generations, even the new generation don't realize it until and unless they themselves go through the same irrespective of generations. So it's down to one important problem that is 'people don't take it seriously if they are not in the same situation'. It branches out to other sub problems like, peoples don't put the morals and ethics to daily life. They will learn it, think about it for some time, even tell others to do it but won't do it themselves. They don't realize if they are hurting someone until it's too late. They don't realize that everyone is different and some things are not applicable to many even if that is accepted by the society and it hurts inside. Even if there is physical freedom to some extent but mental freedom is really necessary for it's health and maybe that's the true freedom one can seek. And yeah hurting others is not part of freedom, it's of domination. Mental freedom is hindered by 'unnecessary judgment' and 'lacking essentials(like money and morals)'. 

But also there's the fact that this is 'life'. It will hurt, there will be darkness and that's the point. They are necessary. Or else the 'good' and the 'light' will be meaningless without them. Giving up is easy, not the freedom or peace or solution. 

One should put oneself in other's situations to understand them. This would be the first step towards peace. Mental peace, freedom will take time to achieve with many scars. After all every great things takes time. Time is the payment for greatness. 

Those memories...

Where are those days now, when we were genuinely happy? Memories are so special. Without it, we are not ourselves. Even if the relationship breaks and the time passes,  memories are still fresh like those moments happened yesterday. They help us to keep moving forward. Those unforgettable time spent with friends, those childhood days, the time with a special one. Our heart skips a beat remembering those happy moments. And also there are some painful moments when remembered, our heart cries. But still those heartbreaking moments are a part of who we are. Even if its monsoon season for the eyes. Those days, moments brings chills to the bones. Those bonds we share with our loved ones are exceptional feelings.

Meaning of the life

Life is not a simple phenomenon. There is so much deeper meaning that we don't know or don't understand. Death is the final truth of life. Between life and death our path is a truth. Always that path is not about right path or wrong, good or evil, positive or negative. Sometimes its about the intention. Whether our intention is good or evil,our fate or future depends on that. If we are down a good path but our intentions are wrong or our heart is erroneous then there is no point. If we are only pretending to be on right path then sooner or later our intentions will divulge. Another thing is our bonds with others. If there is love then there is hatred. If we want only love or good things then nature won't allow it. If love comes then hatred will also be there at our doorstep. We have to welcome both. They are also like a trial of nature to determine our intentions. When we love someone or hate someone then our intentions can be known. There are so many rules of nature. We can't escape from it or break it. Nature always give us hints about the meaning of life in its own way. Our hearts and souls are capable of knowing everything if we open up to the nature.

 

That feeling is...

Fantasize that our heart is like simple wind and a feeling that turns our heart from simple wind to a massive hurricane which is capable of nullifying someone's deepest hatred is love. That tender feeling and sometimes an unexplainable desire, sweetness is something that helps us to move forward in life. Sometimes this life can unleash its cruelty and darkness that our heart is afraid of but in the end this ray of love always pierces that darkness. Love is a gift from mother nature to every living beings. Its very bright, beautiful and pure just like the nature itself. Unfortunately as time goes on love is slowly fading from humans as the heat of sun is vaporizing water. Love is hindered by hatred. Peoples are swallowed by the pain and suffering that is inflicted by life and society. They are obsessed with their own selfish desires and one day this is likely to become our downfall. So we have to cling to that feeling which will help us to rise in this shady world. Yes love is always a hurricane and the very best feeling that can fill the deep hole in heart where only darkness resides. 

The universe and its silent whispers

There is always a reason behind everything that happens in all the universes. We are just too blind to see all the signs. If we can see all the patterns and signs of the universe with our hearts then may be our life can achieve a greater purpose and meaning in this infinite creation. We don't have an eternity in this vastness but our minds,hearts and souls have the potential to mock the tremendous force of reality. Death is only a mere existence to control the gravity of power that is within our souls. In every moment universe is whispering about its secrets and nature to us. We just have to listen. We have to connect our souls to the infinite and feel its presence. It will be a glorious ride. All the pain will be blown away by the wind of powerful feelings and we will rise from the ashes of those pain like a Phoenix. This is reality. Its beyond the limits of darkness and light.